Curator: Noémi SZABÓ
The strategy of motherhood are varies from person to person but as a matter of fact they are similar because being a mother/ a parent is turning you entire life to a different state. This experience is changing your whole personality, moreover it forms your connection to society and creative practice. By taking care of childrens you can learn this “maternal thinking” which is a difficult, complex, it means that you need to balance between being an artist, a creative person and dealing with the everyday life of taking care of your family. Fajgerné Dudás Andrea and Horváth Lóczi Judit decided to introduce this special intellectual and physical state of mind through their personal experiences. They both belong to the same generation and they are both mothers. Even though they paint in a really different way, they have both been interested in women's art for years. They are connected differently to the historian feminist aspects, instead of program-like tendency they are affected by empirical practical experiences. Beyond emancipation they are committed next to the traditional women’s roles: they live in a marriage, they raise their children, do the housework, they brilliantly deal with time meanwhile in their art they express along their feminine and motherhood identity a deep criticism about the patriarchal framework of society.
The exhibition Similar Stories is the result of a long process: on the one hand, it draws on the primary, multi-year experience of motherhood, and on the other hand, it uses the tools of visual art to turn the subjective experiences of the narrators into a community issue. During their conversations, Fajgerné Dudás and Horváth Lóczi identified seven concepts that represent the important problems, unspoken fears and concerns, parental roles, the search for compatibility between artistic practice and career, and the characteristics of special “maternal thinking”: without taboos or clichés, in a deeply psychological, self-reflective, and intimate way. The exhibition Similar Stories is itself an experiment: what connections or differences in emphasis result from the treatment of the theme in two radically different visual languages? Following a conscious decision by the two artists, they did not look at each other's work during the creative process, which lasted several months, and the mutual compromise that arose from the creative rules they set for themselves (fixed themes, specific image sizes) became an important aspect of the exhibition's content.
The artist made a conscious decision that they will not inspect the others' work during the several months of creative process, they created a certain system of rules (themes, defined sizes of the paintings) which established a mutual compromise, it became the exhibitions important content aspect. How can creative women who have the profound vocation, belong to the european culture can process the excruciating feeling of constant remorse which is parallel with the mother role? When is that point coming when nothing really matters and how the patriarchally judgemental society takes it? What if they were born as men? What new levels can experienced from fatigue and exhaustion by the woman who is raising a child? Do women have prejudice against themselves in the motherhood community, whatsoever where are the borders of female empathy? How can we deal with the mental and intellectual load coming from a sense of professionalism for example when you are getting ready for an exhibition? How does privacy dissolve and transform when you become a mother? Those questions can be really familiar to all who became a mother, Fajgerné Dudás Andrea and Horváth Lóczi Judit’s micro histories can provide a dissolution mirror to all of us and meanwhile they hand their own experiences, knowledge and deeper feelings, they address to faith, feminine roles, their complex identity.
Noémi Szabó, art historian, curator of the exhibition
Opening
- 6:00 pm
- The Space
The exhibition will be opened by curator Noémi Szabó and the exhibiting artists.
Artist talk
- 6:00 pm
- The Space
Andrea Dudás and Judit Horváth Lóczi: both are successful artists with distinctive, unique styles, and both are mothers. Their joint experimental project explores the subjective experience of motherhood and the questions, dilemmas, and frustrations arising from the stereotypical framework of motherhood as a socially defined institution: they paint their similar stories based on seven concepts related to motherhood, without allowing each other insight into their concentrated work process until the moment the exhibition opens.
The curator of the exhibition, art historian Noémi Szabó, talks to the artists about the creation of the exhibition and the processes they experienced during the creative process.
Guided tour by Nóra Winkler & Tünde Topor
- 6:30 pm
- The Space
Andrea Dudás and Judit Horváth Lóczi: both are successful artists with distinctive, unique styles, and both are mothers. Their joint experimental project explores the subjective experience of motherhood and the questions, dilemmas, and frustrations arising from the stereotypical framework of motherhood as a socially defined institution: they paint their similar stories based on seven concepts related to motherhood, without allowing each other insight into their concentrated work process until the moment the exhibition opens.
This time, we can see the exhibition through the eyes of Nóra Winkler and Tünde Topor.
Understand the Contemporary Exhibition +
- 6:00 pm
- The Space
Although motherhood is an important and sensitive topic that has preoccupied artists for thousands of years, many issues are still considered taboo today, issues that would draw attention to the hidden aspects of motherhood. The exhibition Similar Stories breaks with the traditional approach and focuses on the challenges of motherhood faced by two female painters with completely different styles. Discover with us the intersections between the worlds of Andrea Fajgerné Dudás and Judit Horváth Lóczi!
How does the international contemporary scene relate to the difficult moments of motherhood? What could be part of this discourse? Join the unique Understand the Contemporary Exhibition+ program and see one of the eternal topoi of our civilization with new eyes!
Finissage and guided tour
- 4:00 pm
- The Space
Mom washes, cooks, cleans, shops, raises children, takes them here and there, works, driven by her sense of duty, paints pictures, writes articles or dissertations (if she is really lucky, she has her own room, if not, the kitchen will do), the deadline is approaching, then illness strikes, plans are disrupted, reorganization: Mom stays home, cancels appointments, works through the night, exhausted, a little irritable, or very irritable (she is ashamed of the latter): she worries about the child, she worries about the deadline, she feels guilty about everything, over and over again, constantly, but Mom prefers not to talk about this at the playground. No matter how differently we experience motherhood, the choreography of everyday life with children and the situations that arise from it follow a very similar script. This area was explored by Andrea Fajgerné Dudás and Judit Horváth Lóczi in the exhibition Similar Stories, after a long period of joint reflection and intensive creative work.
- Joint deliberation – Interview with artists Judit Horváth Lóczi and Andrea Fajgerné Dudás, PREA.hu
- Maternal matters, Noémi Szabó, Országút
- “As creative mothers, we always have to exceed expectations.” – Interview with the artists of Similar Stories, Remind Magazine
- Ten exhibitions in February, Katica Kocsis, Kultúra.hu

























